Bachelorette parties will forever have a special place in my heart. The first time I ever went to a real club (alone and with a male friend), this guy kept creeping over and grinding on me, uninvited. I wasn't yet the elbow-throwing feminist menace I am today, so I didn't know what to do other than sort of awkwardly…

You could easily populate this entire list with Cordelia put downs and still have a hundred more to go. She's the reason I have trouble taking the mean girls of the modern era seriously, because they are all pale, shallow imitations of Queen C. A couple of favs...

This is not about vaginal diameter (which is a myth) but about the weakening of the pelvic floor following vaginal birth, which is very real. Yes, pushing and infant’s head though your pelvic floor does tend to have an impact (particularly on urinary continence), one that can be minimized and often reversed through PT…

I have never given birth so normal kegels are just fine by me (and I’m definitely not doing them wrong :P), but I really appreciated this post! Great review. I have the Minna Ola (it’s pretty rad) toy in my collection and can definitely see how the tech could be successfully applied to kegel exercises. Thanks for…

With the right attitude, orgasm can be achieved using ANY product.

Here’s the original Poltergeist trailer:

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Well sure we can. Can she stop being on a show that polices how other people look?

Yep.

I built the dance floor, pitched the giant tent, and set up the tables and chairs for the reception with three other groomsman and one of the bride's brothers before the ceremony. Terrible? Really?

I had really pretty sparkly gold high heels for the wedding - unfortunately, they were also really stiff along the sides and the heel (and somehow sharp and stabby?), and double-unfortunately, I rarely wear shoes that aren't birkenstocks, so my feet were not used to shoes, let alone uncomfortable ones. On our wedding…

oh i know that place.

Last photo, I swear... a Biba make-up tutorial of their signature looks.

Basically *I* (usually) think I'm pretty, but I just about always think that other people WON'T find me pretty. In other words, I usually think I'm gorgeous but simultaneously think that I'm not what men want to see/someone strangers will look at and find attractive.

He and I are currently making living arrangement plans. exciting

This is a pretty accurate summary of my reaction:

Also can we talk about what an awesome legacy stewart has created? I mean given his commitment to including diverse voices, we now have wilmore and noah in time slots dominated by white guys usually. I mean, yes, we need more women in these roles too, but for now, this is a change i can get behind.