Oh god. Sorry I responded to you. Sit down and go back to school and learn about this country and what people are here and have been here for 400 years. Gosh.

It sells because it is made. Make something else. There are ...millions of stories about people other than the blonds.

No. It’s so great though, set ANOTHER movie in the 50’s that focuses only and exclusively on white folk and thereby...casts only the whites. Hollywood is so incredible! (incredible = stupid).

You answered your own question. They probably had the kind of sex that requires a safe word.

So a porn studio does a better job at handling sexual assault than a lot of religious institutions.

Of interest: The porn industry is quicker to drop someone over allegations of rape than the NFL or NCAA.

The same poster also berated another survivor who said she found consent play cathartic for not “seeing a therapist to reclaim your mind and your sexuality.” I don’t often read comments on Jez that genuinely shock and horrify me, but that did the trick.

Right there with you. I tend to be pretty critical of conversations where “kink-shaming” is thrown out to preemptively suppress discussion, but the anti-porn and anti-BDSM crowds really went overboard last night.

So glad you’re the gatekeeper of who is qualified to calm themselves a feminist.

it’s Jezebel, you don’t need an explict reason to hate white people, it’s just part of the general vibe

John Legend, Terry Crews. If we’re talking men of color in general I’d throw in Aziz Ansari.

Boy, I hope this post provokes a lot more commentary attacking rape survivors who enjoy BDSM as “bad” victims and gleefully appropriating Stoya’s rape to advance a position she profoundly disagrees with. Because we didn’t get enough of that on the first post.

If a man supports equality for women with his actions and words, he is a feminist. Limiting feminism to only women who support equal rights for women is a bit sad and ridiculous. 1. For excluding half of the population in the responsibility for equality. 2. The crazy fact there are women that don’t believe in label or…

It’s a statement that his lawyer composed. But beyond that? Nothing. It’s a statement. That’s it. Does a careful reading of it give you or anyone else sight of the truth? Nope. It doesn’t matter how smart or perceptive you are. You could read her tweets a million times over and his tweets a million times over and you…

Nobody’s looking for saviors here, Granddad. By the way, why not eat something?

“You can say you support feminism. But don’t say you’re an actual feminist.”

So white men can’t be feminist, but black men can? Asian men can? Wow... How about who ever believes men and women are equal and should be treated in society as such is a feminist.

Good on the Frisky, and excellently worded court of public opinion not court of law.

James Deen is certainly not a feminist, I totally agree. But that doesn’t mean that a lot of other men (even white men) aren’t.

I never know what to do with these kinds of cases. I am a survivor of rape, and deeply believe in showing support and compassion to victims, but at the same time I am deeply uncomfortable with the idea that a person’s personal and professional life can and should be ruined based on two tweets, with absolutely no…