She mentioned post-partum adjustments in order to tell the OP to give herself a break and that her emotional feelings should be considered when assessing what is fair division of labor with her husband.

Holy passive aggression. The comment you made wasn’t about the OP, it was about the commenters who replied. It literally started with a sarcastic “I love reading the comments of people who” basically get it wrong. You made a snide comment that made fun of people trying to help while framing yourself as some “insider”…

Why did you dismiss my super benign comment asking a genuine question? If “wailing with her hands” means like hitting her kids or something, it’s a totally different story and I was trying to understand. You can click on my profile to see I’m not a troll - I comment in earnest/good faith. I see you all the time on…

Does “wailing her hands” mean gesturing with her hands? Because smoking a cigarette in the car and yelling at young kids isn’t really that remarkable? I realize smokers are basically the devil now (and that secondhand smoke is very bad, of course), but it wasn’t like that in the late 80s/early 90s when her kids were…

I have so many question, too! Especially considering Jolie’s net worth was supposedly $160 million in 2016, and Pitt’s was $240 million. Like I recognize the difference in numbers there, but there is a line where support to/from either party can’t possibly be “meaningful”, and they are both so far over that line,…

Definitely. Just remember that you deserve to be there, it doesn’t matter anymore what your grades or test scores were. Those things really won’t matter ever again. What matters now - and what will matter in the future - is what you do now, at your school. You got in just like everyone else - and some of those people…

Just a heads up - the information in your last paragraph is inaccurate. The tax on the items listed in the last paragraph (paints, leather goods, bamboo flooring, stoves, televisions and washing machines) was reduced from 28% to (mostly) 18%. These items are not exempt from tax. (Baby milk is exempt, that part is…

Hi Banestar! I am at an Ivy League grad school working on my PhD. I am working class, former college drop-out, first gen college graduate, state schools, etc. I don’t know if your own background fans the flames of your imposter feelings, but either way, Ivy League schools can be a total mindfuck. If you ever need…

“What neither you or your co workers could know is whether or not your boss likes you as an employee, or wants to mate with you. You do realize it’s a dig at her, the implication that she is only promoting your career to - what? Have sex? It is also a dig at you, like you’re not doing a good job, she just wants you.…

I think you might just be a magical kinja whisperer. 🧚‍♂️

The very first comment I made (the screenshot above) is not showing up on the comment thread. And I watched it go from black to grey and disappear from the thread last night. I’m 99% sure it was dismissed. I appreciate your optimism, though? ;)

He dismissed my first comment to him (the one I posted the screenshot of), but I don’t know how to tell who else has been dismissed. I can see your comment though (about being in a similar situation) - I don’t think yours was dismissed. ❤️

Definitely, but in terms of a potential romantic relationship, it seemed strange/convenient to minimize the power dynamic.

I’m getting the feeling he doesn’t actually want real, tough advice. I gave him some solid and firm advice and was dismissed. He literally asked to hear just how bad of an idea this is and why - I wonder how many other replies he’s dismissed from women...

So you ask for people to tell you it’s a bad idea but then dismiss my comment about why it’s a bad idea? Because I was honest about why it’s a bad idea and gave my honest opinion? You realize I could’ve said nothing - I usually ignore your dating advice threads - but I gave you solid advice from the perspective of a…

Your boss calling on you first at work when something has to be done at work has absolutely nothing to do with “interest” in you as a romantic prospect.

🧚‍♂️🧚‍♂️🧚‍♂️

Are you fucking kidding me with this?

Haha awwww me too on both points, love - here’s hoping! ;)