Be honest bro, you have been saying this is her fault. That's been your whole argument.

Thank'a you!

May I save this post to offer to people that don't get it?

That's the upsetting part, we all just become statistics rather than people.

Yea, that last comment I made I had just gotten annoyed. I don't like when people try to teach me what I already know. I don't think everyone is against me. I think rape victims get shit on by society and this case is an example of that. The issue isn't just the DA or the laws we have in place, that's what I was…

Adults panic over young girls perceived sexuality is in no way helping to actually sexualize and stigmatize the girls (and their bodies) to begin with. No siree, Nu uh.

I've been through a rape case, you're not telling me anything. Thanks though.

"Every rape case reported should be taken seriously, but they are not. If they were, conviction rates would improve. Police bias screws over a lot of victims."

This is absolutely terrible. I hope her family seeks justice.

Yea, that's what's so messed up about it. Jurors want a perfect victim when the perfect victim doesn't exist.

I was just wondering. I was also curious as to why you were incapable of looking it up yourself, but rather than ask you I decided to provide a link as requested. I corrected you for saying "some" rather than "most". Your comment read like rape victims not getting justice wasn't a big issue, as if it's rare for rape…

It'd be used by the defense, yes, but to say it's unusual isn't really accurate. It's not really healthy to try to judge what's normal and abnormal behavior after a traumatic event. People respond differently. Some people lock themselves away from the world and situation, some people try to reclaim their bodies…

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"Some"? I think you mean "Most".

I agree with you completely. It's just infuriating that there are so many grown men that all know they aren't allowed to touch, know the boundaries but do violate them anyway. In my case the dude was 30 and absolutely new because he asked about my relationship prior to the assault and I explained my philosophy on…

Dear god, why is this so common! It's infuriating.

You can't court someone who isn't interested in being courted by you; this goes for men and women. It's not just guys being clueless, it's guys assuming that their wants supersede anothers and then getting bitter for not getting what they "worked so hard for".

Same, did he tell you "But I(he) was leading you on. . .What did you expect." too?

You know what, I have met men like this. However, I've gotta say that those douche-canoes are in the minority. I have noticed that these are the same guys that like to say that all men are like that though (I suspect so they don't have to acknowledge that they are in fact ass holes).

No! That episode was so sad, how dare you remind me :(