"When I was severely depressed and suicidal, my male therapist HIT ON ME. It was really creepy and awful."

I'm so glad someone else was admiring her hairline!

The more prosperous seemed to have a "better awareness of their own needs and a greater capacity for developing their sexuality in a way which is satisfying for them," according to the study.

I agree completely. Reading this article I was getting flashbacks of when men would do this to my friends and I. My friends would lock up and attempt to kindly deflect just as I did, just as "Jill" did. If you respond to these harassers by shutting it down no matter how kindly they just gaslight you, blame You for not…

statistically, that's not a big surprise :(

I've noticed the same thing. Obviously this isn't absolute because everyone is different (which is a given but a lot of people tend to jump to absolutes so I have to say it); but a lot of the men I've met (ages 20-30) do refuse the "step down". I don't get it. It comes off as pretty entitled to me. In my relationships…

Holy crap, I was just talking to my fiance last night about this exact hairstyle and how I wish it would come back! If I could get my hair to do that, I'd rock it hard.

Something else is wrong too, missing perhaps . . . oh ya, gravity.

It's stupid, but it's a question that is absolutely asked. I'm basing that on my experience though. When I reported, one of the questions the officer asked me was "Are you sure you didn't consent? I mean, you could just be confused". I was too busy scraping my brain off of the ceiling to answer the question . . .…

Holy shit, you sound super interesting! (I'm serious btw)

Agreed.

Well, personally, I think it's more than likely that he did rape that woman (given that the woman's report was found to have more merit than his and his attempts to strike it thrown out). So, I'm disgusted.

Um, has anyone said he should be lynched? Being disgusted with someone and actively lynching them are two different things. 5 G's please.

Can You prove he's not guilty?

"Cerussi claimed he was expelled in after Kathleen Schurick and Patricia G. Williams, Associate Deans of Students at UC, filed a report and led disciplinary hearings that ultimately led to him being found guilty of rape, though not in an official court of law, as no charges were ever filed with the police."

Pretty much every college rape case that ends up on Jezebel or Gawker has at least 3 people asking that exact same question "why didn't she do ___ instead?"; usually by antagonists, derailers and trolls which reveal themselves later downthread or are already well known to the regulars. It's getting hard to tell the…

He has a young Jack Nicholson or Paul Blackthorne thing going on. I dig the look too. The person/perp on the other hand . . . I'm not too keen on public maturbators. No amount of cute makes that acceptable. I think there's room for some separation (aesthetic vs personality), yea? . . . I hope :(

this is the best thing I've ever seen.

I re-watched the movie recently after remembering how much I enjoyed it the first time and was greatly disappointed for similar reasons as Lindy describes. That being said, I absolutely agree with your points. Thank you for reminding me of the good stuff. :)