You are making assumptions based on how she looks. You don't "know", you Think.

Some men sit with a wide stance. My ex packed some heat and he always sat with his legs closed because it was more comfortable for him. I don't find sitting in a tight little bundle comfortable but I do it because otherwise there will be some asshole insinuating i'm a dirty whore and others will either nod along or…

Thanks, I was curious too.

Umm . . . :(

Thank you! GAH!

Agreed, but what hope do we have if even judges don't understand it :(

Yea, you did the right thing. He's being inappropriate and from what you wrote he likely wont stop until it affects him directly. Reporting was the right thing to do. Don't feel bad, it was brave. I am thrilled that your boss was supportive too.

Sounds like you have some demons to work through. Listen to Tastycakes2, she knows what's up. It ain't rocket surgery. ALSO, I don't know about your relationship but in mine consent is always enthusiastic. If one of us asks "Yo, wanna have sex?" or "Should I grab a condom?" and the response is anything other than…

Yup, I couldn't even get through the first video. I've seen that look on a lot of faces and it's a look of "Oh shit, I'm lying, hope I don't get caught, hurr hurr" and you know what, they always were.

Seriously. Along with the comments on the lady-rapists aesthetic appeal.

Yup, it's bullshit alright.

Amen to that! and that way the excuse of "I didn't know" would become invalid.

Sadly, I think you're right.

That's fair and it's also why I said it's conflicting.

I struggle with that one, to be honest. Have you ever looked a rapist in the eye and had them laugh at you, at the pain and humiliation they've caused? They don't get it, they don't know how much it hurts and destroys the person they've violated. So sometimes, yea, I think some people will only learn by experiencing…

Whaaa? I don't remember that episode! lol

Maybe they rub ice on them backstage.

Unpopular opinion! I love sheer clothing. I think it's beautiful and compliments the body. That said, I'd never wear sheer outside of the home because few people can see nudity (even veiled) as anything other than sexual. sigh.

Eugh! Chills, skin crawly chills. That is verbatim what the man that raped me said to the officer during his police interview. What's scary is that this excuse works.

Oh crap, sorry, I couldn't follow the link. That was my error that time.