Also - dunno if SJP reached out privately to express condolences, but if she’s only leaving a comment on Insta? No thanks. So impersonal and tacky and manipulative.

The submission element is there. As much as men wanna lie and say it’s not. That’s why you gotta be very selective. I’m more selective about head than regular sex. Because its a service that he could view in a way that is against my interests.

I thought issa was mad cause he came on her face without asking. Which if not discussed before hand, is a big no no. He held her head down, when she tried to come up. Then didn’t say he was sorry, instead said, in reference to her giving head, oh I thought you were down for whatever. Which that with her sort of…

Totally agree! If the men didn’t propagate the Virgin/Whore complex, maaaaybe more women would let them melt those jobs. (Thanks a log, patriarchy!)

I haven’t watched the full episode, but I’m not mad at the conversation. While publicly, Black women have advanced, behind closed doors, the terror of the Jezebel myth still looms large. Black women are so quickly thrown into the Madonna/Whore dichotomy even more so than White women that I could see where a woman…

Listen Linda. That cumshot was everything. It was hilarious. Yes, we were partying like it’s 1997, but it was so real. It left me with a lot of questions, though. Was Lawrence with the desert d—k their whole relationship? Was Issa properly being served? How old are they?