Its like wing girls in pickup. When non-socail guys are exposded to socializing with women, they become more confident as well as happier which can of course not only improve their social and interpersonal skills, but eventually their social lives as well as their attitude.....this could help them at work too I would…

Self hatered is a deeply rooted issue for many Asians. It is sad that the stereo types and the lack of understanding of cultural differences can create these self limiting beliefs. You should check out JT Tran and the www.abcsofattraction.com