I’m sorry, who did I wish death on again? You might want to reread my comments there, champ. I never even implied such a thing.

I’m done with you. Whatever insecurity you have that’s causing your transphobia (and yes, it is a you problem) that’s not my problem. You literally ignored my point about breast growth but you don’t seem that bright, so.

Hey, change your language or not you’re losing the culture war. Eventually you’ll realize that. Probably relatively soon. But, much like racists and homophobes before you you’ll be screaming until the bitter end about how wrong everyone else is.

Um...wow. Are you not aware that trans women (and yes, I am a woman inspite of your ignorance) can go on hormones and grow breasts, right? Yes, the same breasts that cis gender women do. That’s kind of universally known but it seems like you didn’t know that.

Thank you! You’re fine. I was agreeing with you but I worded it kind of weird so I’m sorry if you thought it was directed at you at all. You are awesome and I’m sorry if it seemed I felt otherwise.

Um...no. Considering I have breasts, yes, I absolutely may someday know how that feels. I’m sorry you’re going through that, I really am. But what you just said is just blatantly incorrect.

You do realize that some women are born with an XY chromosome, right? And that some men are born with XX? Please educate yourself on biology before you start spouting your ignorant opinion, thanks.

Wow. This is the most blatantly transphobic thing I have heard in a long time. And comparing the trans experience to wanting to be a rock star? Wow. Seriously. That’s some next level bigotry right there.

I could be a real asshole here and try to invalidate your gender identity like you have to me but I won’t. I’m a better person than you. Have a nice day.

I'm almost in tears right now. You have no idea how much I needed to hear this. Thank you.

I would appeal to this person’s sense of empathy but they obviously don’t have any.

But hey, it's cool. Just keep spreading hatred, lies and misery. Kind of glad I'm not you, Weiland. Kind of glad I can go to bed at night knowing I'm trying to make the world a better place instead of a worse one.

“You want to be a small minded bigot, live where you live, but your kind are not long for this world and I personally cannot wait until all of you are gone and I don’t have to read this kind of stupid drivel.”

Amen

I am a woman. And, frankly, fuck you for telling me otherwise.

No one is saying that those things can’t define womanhood for you. What we are saying is that this person (and no one) can define womanhood for everyone else, especially when they dismiss anyone who hasn’t had their specific experiences. It's about not excluding people,

You have no idea what I would give up to be able to have been female since birth. No idea. I would give up any privilege you can name to be able to have experienced the correct childhood. And it is SO PAINFUL when people not only try to invalidate my experiences but rub in my face that I never had- and can never have-…

If it makes you feel any better, seeing comments like yours is a great solace to me after reading these horrible TERFy arguments. I probably shouldn’t be admitting this but a couple of days ago someone came into a trans reddit I’m on and was (intentionally politely, which is even more gross) arguing that we weren’t…

And why CAN’T we be “conventionally” feminine? Why is it that for some people cis women are perfectly ok being however feminine they want but we’re not allowed? Blatant transphobia. I’m getting really sick of having people scrutinize us for things they would never scrutinize our cis counterparts for. And I’m tired-…

And plenty of trans women are scared of walking around at night. Hell, I'm scared and I'm not even living full time yet. 1 in 12 trans women are murdered. 1 in 12. So I don't want to hear from her or anyone else about how we're just floating in our little bubbles of supposed male

Well, fortunately for me I am a woman and no amount of “polite” invalidation from ignorant transphobes who don’t understand biology very well is going to change that. But I am going to keep being me and being grateful that people like you aren’t in my life.

Yup. I put one on every night when I get home. I live every day at work, every moment out of my apartment as a “man.”. When I get home I like to change into something that feels feminine, that helps me reconnect with something I spend the entire day ignoring and suppressing to make others happy.