1. “Female” is an adjective. I’m a woman.

Intent matters if it was an accident— if the grabber never intended to grab in the first place. But he clearly meant to grab Fraser, so the reason why is a bullshit excuse.

“...it was intended to be taken as a joke and not as a sexual advance.”

So wedding cupcakes are the new “civil union” I guess?

Are you actually my husband commenting? Because you sound just like him. He still thinks it would be awesome to get a boxer and name her Barbara.

I know an “Isis” dog too. It’s a little awkward for the owners.

My sister adopted a new dog recently and was trying to figure out a new name for him and really wanted to use a “people” name (Jake and George were among the front-runners). I warned her not to name the dog after any real life man, because then that man would inevitably be outed as a racist or rapist or some other…

Any time I feel like blasting music while I drive this summer, it’ll be Janelle Monae’s Dirty Computer. That album has SO MANY perfect “summer songs” on it.

The movie Rent. Not the musical. The fucking movie. Which is not good. I’d been drinking heavily, and that night, Angel’s death absolutely destroyed me.

I remember being in a completely packed theater full of teenagers for opening night of the DiCaprio/Danes Romeo + Juliet. It’s the big dramatic end and everyone’s sniffling and trying to hold back tears, and then Claire Danes let loose with an over-the-top ridiculous sob, and the entire crowd lost their shit laughing.…

There’s a difference between Roseanne being racist on Twitter, the public getting pissed off, and ABC canceling her ass, and Sam Bee using a profanity that was bleeped out of television broadcast, and the White House using the power of its position to pressure TBS do something about it.

I remember when I saw Waitress in theaters I was just struck by how pretty Keri Russell was, and in some scenes she really looked like Nicole Kidman. The Mary Kay rep picture above is giving me Nicole Kidman in To Die For vibes.

We get it, you won’t be voting for Manning in the Democratic Senate primary in Maryland next month.

Chelsea Manning wasn’t pardoned, Obama commuted her sentence. Her conviction still stands, he just decided that she had served enough time— particularly as her 35-year sentence was the harshest ever handed down for a leak.

THIS SHIT IS MY NIGHTMARE. Seriously, I’ve been on the pill and in a monogamous relationship for a decade and a half, but it took several years before I was comfortable enough to have sex without a condom. My anxiety/fear of pregnancy wouldn’t allow me to relax and enjoy sex without a backup method of birth control.

Do you watch Crazy Ex-Girlfriend? I thought their handling of bpd this past season was done very well, and I’d be curious to hear what people who work in mental health and/or have bpd think of it.

Thanks! I’ve seen the abbreviation used for both, it’s an easy mix-up.

#correction— Davidson has Borderline Personality Disorder, that’s what the “bpd” stands for.

It’s like the difference between my two dogs. I adopted one as a puppy, and she’s known no other life but being loved and pampered. For her, the worst thing that’s ever happened to her is going to the vet or getting her nails trimmed.