this is great!

I am a straight female and found the video delightful and arousing. Which is confusing. Like I would love to be that beautiful (not to entertain the male gaze but just for myself).

It doesn't read as despite but bored with it. Which cracks me up even more.

Everything she said about the portrayal of confidence vs. submissiveness YASSS!

I haven't tried past the point of uncomfortableness and beyond. So I will.

you're fat mark? From the picture with the guinea pig I wouldn't have guessed it!

Right!? I had no idea she was pregnant!

It's amazing what 10 years can do. Normally big changes seem to go for around 10 year chunks. In America there was so much money during the mid 90s and early 2000s. Somehow people kept carrying with that mentality. When things stabilized and then started declining (like it should, it's not like anything will last…

My thing right now is: 2 weeks worth of outfits without repeating and no need for laundry.

I was just going on about this with a friend! how do we tell?

I don't know if this idea will fit your lifestyle. I bought a basic sewing machine. Otherwise I was sewing by hand.

Agreed. Same on the line about quality.

I am busty (I buy 2X size and alter where I can) so a lot of the thrift shops can't supply everything for me. But I'd rather go slow and buy an ugly looking mom dress from the 90s that is really big but fits my boobs and butt and then I'll hem it and take it in where I need to.

My orgasms are pretty short and I can't figure out how to make them last......ideas?

I think for people like me it's almost a necessity. If he comes first the extra lubrication will make it impossible for me to orgasm. And it doesn't feel so great for him.
If I come first and he keeps going and is a bit away from orgasm OUCH! I hate it! it feels awful.

My husband is the only man I've had sex with. The first year (and part of the second) of marriage was super frustrating. I didn't know how to orgasm.

I think she said it. But not in those words. We need to get used to the talk.

Then I'd be so disappointed that she doesn't tackle the lack of midwifery care available in the US. Maternity leave. C-Section rates that are out of control. Home birth. Natural birth v. medicated birth.

OMG if she took the plunge and did a terrible job or even a mediocre job there would also be backlash.
Why is it that when someone raises and becomes successful all of a sudden she's responsible for being a 10 in all areas of everything that must be done and advocated for?

I think that this whole getup would look much sleeker on someone with less curves. Like I said up above, a very "Underworld" vibe. But for that you'd have to be Pam from TrueBlood.