I saw “Swimming with men”, a homophobic, misogynistic shit fest about a guy who leaves his wife because she finds a career and a male colleague who dares drinking a glass of wine with her during a professional discussion. He then quits the job that supports his family to participate in a non-official, shitty wold cup…

I actually think it might have had to do with me not talking the meds at consistent times. I'm glad you found what works for you! 

I just wanted to tell everyone that my mood has stabilized.

I feel so blessed to have them - they await me at either side of the door when I come home, waiting for cuddles.

Well the 90% figure is probably a lie, but the 1% and 4% relate to Germany’s and the U.S. Budget, while the 90% relate to the cost of NATO. With the U.S. having the largest budget of the NATO partners and spending the biggest percentage on defense, they will be the biggest contributor.

I already bookmarked :) Thanks everyone for the nice words. I am seeing my therapist on Thursday. I am already feeling better today. My strategy is to take extra good care of myself now, so I brought a healthy lunch, and I will work out tonight. Just because he doesn’t want to care for me, doesn’t mean I shouldn’t.

35 and depressed here. I’m 100% sure non of your friends think what you think they do. They might misinterpret your silence and be hurt because of that. Reach out. Be open about how you feel. And if anybody should be mean, keep in mind that’s how some people react to (percieved) rejection. If that doesn’t work, find…

Thanks - sorry for being a bit stupid but where do I find groupthink?

Well that’s what makes this whole thing so frustrating, I’m trying to talk to him about it and he just gets more and more defensive. I’m obviously pushing one of his buttons in return to him pushing mine, but I’ve basically told him exactly that and asked him to explain, but now he’s actually ghosting me since Friday.

I have other people but I’m very bad at accepting help. He was the first person to wear me down in that regard in ages. I know I should reach out to other people that love me (they have all been asking if I’m alright), but it’s hard. It’s less about him personally than it is about that voice in my head saying “see,…

Yes I would appreciate that, thank you.

Thank you, I appreciate that!

I’m on an antidepressant and I'm in therapy. But I've been so well, now I feel like I'm failing my therapist... And I'm questioning if my emotional needs towards man friend are just depressive hysteria.

I’m in the grays and in Germany, so nobody might read this, but maybe it’s good to just write everything down...

My cats steal my dirty panties and hide them under the bed along with their other treasures. They also like to sleep in my arm. I got them four months ago to help me with my depression and they take their job of taking care of me very seriously.

Well I just resigned myself to being a crazy cat lady. I used to have a very promising career, but I have been stuck in the same shitty position for over three years now. There are no complaints about my work, just completely unspecified ones about the “how”. I’m starting to get the feeling that mostly, the men in my…

Well I’m probably going to be lost in the greys anyway. I need a few encouraging words. I’m 35 and I think I will be forever alone. I thought I was kind of dating this really sweet nerdy guy, but while we were spending a lot of time together and having lots of fun, things didn’t seem to move forward. So after a dinner…

These guys can afford to make long term investments because they are not publicly traded...

Actually no, there is no wrong way to deal with your grief as long as you don’t use it as an excuse to hurt others.

Hi everyone,