here’s another explanation, more mechanical than my sensitive-guy ramblings

glad you asked. good sex is not about “this pleasure” or “that pleasure”— it’s about deep empathy and communication. empathy takes sensitiviy— to the other person’s emotions, reactions, temperature, secretions, etc etc.

not really. sensitivity is a two-way street.

I think the “fetish” thing is misguided advice and actually kinda offensive/reductionist.

for starters, the foreskin is home to a bazillion nerve endings.

you’re right and i’m sorry for having said something stupid in that regard in another post. i’ve redacted it.

She could try dating men who weren’t raised in the US as a start. You don’t necessarily have to go to the fetish level. There are plenty of foreigners who are uncut.

Oh yeah, he means San Fran.

Except, you know, a family.

Blah, blah, blah, Hawkeye.

Yeah the recipe I use comes from an uncle. Was a barman (among other things) in the Midlands before he came here. Was an electrician and barman here. And later owned his own pub. He first had an Irish coffee in NY around 1958. Learned to make them here. From an Italian.

God dammit, now if the movie doesn’t end this way I’m going to be disappointed.

You know, it would be pretty awesome if the Avengers and associated good guys were all but defeated, and Thanos was gloating over his assumed victory, and then Barton came out of nowhere after being absent for most of the movie, and killed him effortlessly with a perfectly placed arrow to the eye. The head of the…

The Let’s Go Crazy solo is what finally convinced a lot of young men (myself included) that it was cool to be into Prince. I don’t care that he was this oddball purple-wearing pixie, anyone who could bring it like that was okay. I would love to have seen it live.

I’m not sure about the auto-pay. I think having to think about bills gives you a chance to (briefly) think about whether this is a necessary expense. Even if you have to pay it (rent, utilities, etc.), not automating it will make you think, can I turn open a window instead of using the AC, or do I really watch all…

He’s a man of few words

Am I blind, or does the article titled “Sean Bean reveals Ned Stark’s last words on Game of Thrones” not actually include Sean Bean revealing Ned Stark’s last words on Game of Thrones?

Ugh. I actually really enjoyed your article and then saw this.

OG AVClub reader here (predates Gawker by a decade), and they took a unique, fun website and online community and absolutely destroyed it, at least mostly by using this garbage Kinja bullshit.

as a guy I can only tell you what I know from my girlfriend a my sisters. The bidet is great to clean your lady parts, but heavy use may cause urinary infection and afect your normal flora