Right, use that soap opera music they use for Oscar Bluth hinting Buster is his son, cast against type, and be, “The part of George Bluth will now be played by Nathan Lane.” Hell, recast it every week, and do the same schtick. “The part of George Bluth will now be played by Ansel Elgort ... Ricky Fucking Schroeder...…

She doesn’t want to be the “bitch” who “overacts” and ruins it for everyone. We’ve all been there.

You know the part that’s the stupidest? Of all the shows in all the land, can you think of one that would make it easier to write out a major character? They could have fired Tambor, had a stand-in and done a running gag where you only saw him from behind. Or he was suddenly played by a different actor like Bewitched…

Exactly. To me it read like gaslighting.

She’s the NYT’s handpicked “feminist voice” who’s been serving the same warmed-over hot takes about Feminists Going Too Far and Young Women These Days, Well I Never since the GD 90’s.

Somehow, CBS Sunday Morning’s post about this popped up on my FB feed. The comments were just a stream of elderly white women (CBS Sunday Morning’s like only demographic) saying, “AGREE. We should LISTEN to other OPINIONS. Because of the CONSTITUTION. The “Feminists” should LEARN about this.”

I couldn’t get past these two gems in the essay.

moonlight won best picture. warren beatty screwed up reading the card.

My advice, free of charge: If you’re planning a murder-suicide, just reverse the order. You’ll never know the difference.

I’m so sorry. :( I was also a case where my insurance was questioning the medical necessity of a reduction; they wanted proof that it impacted my physical health. Never mind that the extra tissue on my chest was causing sleep apnea, I had to wear two or three sports bras to conduct any sort of physical activity…

Ugh, as a DD/F person, YES. I hate having to wear a bra, then a ribbed tank top, then a loose tank top to keep “cool” in hot weather while keeping my girls covered. And can we talk about the GIANT, BRA REVEALING armholes in every damn sleeveless top/tank now? Who decided we just want to go full sideboob on the regular?

Ugh, people started askin me if my tits were “real” when I was like 12. Wtf is wrong with people? Yes. Yes, they are. I was a child.

My wife had a reduction when we were dating, down to around a d/dd (now around f/g). The looks and comments are atrocious, and god forbid she wear anything frame hugging (kind of hard not to), the looks from men are lecherous, the comments from women are crude, threatening and mean.

When someone asks what you’re doing.

BUTTONS ARE THE WORST. If you buy a button up shirt in the size that fits you everywhere, you might as well get a tent. If you buy the size that shows that you have an actual waist, they gap. With cardigans I just kind of stretch the top part out a little, put on a scarf, and hope for the best.

I did find one veeery useful weapon in these sorts of situations is to ever-so-sweetly request the complaint against me in writing and signed by the person harassing me so I can use it “for my future reference”. (In this case, I’d probably ask to film them in front of a mirror indicating EXACTLY what’s offensive.)…

Free the boobs.

As a large busted lady, I can tell you from experience: big titties look like big titties, no matter what you cover them up with.

The same happens with school or work uniforms. Even if you are wearing your mandatory uniform, your boobs make it “unprofessional” and somebody will complain.

People are always trying to police my tits. YOU CANT HOLD THESE TITS DOWN!