Both turn women into sex objects. The one because he talks about (and likely does) grab their sexual parts, and the other because he cannot even fathom spending time with a woman *without* it being sexual in nature (and therefore disloyal to his wife).

Yeah, that is the behavior of a man who is either A) fucking every woman he can while maintaining an absurd public persona of a faithful husband, or B) someone who thinks that have so little self-control that if they are ever alone with another woman their dick will just somehow automatically end up inside that…

And it also shows that perhaps his love and respect for his wife is a bit tenuous. Or that he’s got some deep self-control issues.

That’s not being faithful. That’s being insulting to women.