I’ve always bought them at the dollar store. They are great to keep wet hair up and away while doing makeup (shower>makeup>hair, no other way) and dry hair up whenever? Doing chores? Working from home? Anytime you don’t want pony tail marks?

My friend gave me a Knix bra (sent her the wrong size) and holy ever loving shit it is the ugliest thing on and off. It is supposed to minimize the “chicken cutlets” that spill over between bra and arm pit. I am pretty fit and do not have any issue with other bras in this area and yet this one some how accentuates it.…

Is this person my boss? Seriously. I work in social media, marketing and communications for a non-profit and the other day she was complaining that “all these social justice campaigns are hijacking our social media.” No, it’s called being aware, compassionate and supportive of other marginalized communities.

I had a dream my cat fell off my balcony years ago and I still won’t let him on it. Thankfully he isn’t very interested. While it never actually happened, watching him fall was one of the worst moments in my life and I still hold him tight when I think about it.

I work in an incredibly toxic organization and my boss is the icing on the shit cake. This week I got in trouble for “undermining” her when I questioned a task she wanted me to do (our executive director had said something conflicting) and for defending an idea I presented which she turned down right away assuring my…

I have a full body reaction when my friends mention a “side hustle” or a second job. We are a group of diverse professionals with pretty impressive educational backgrounds and it makes me literally feel sick that people feel they need (or actually need) to do something on the side. You shouldn’t feel you aren’t…

# 1 Rick Steves fan here! Rick Steves is the best! He is one of the people I get very passionate about when I am drunk (composer John Williams being the lead). I will make you watch clips and wax poetically about “Europe through the back door” (also that title, come on!).

When I was a kid my mother also made me wear them when I went to summer day camp. Headlice was rampant and I’d already had it 3 times the previous summer from the baseball helmets. It is more difficult for the critters to find a home in greasy, tightly braided hair.

I was sitting on a park bench in broad daylight just before an interview prepping in a busy part of Toronto when I looked up and there was a dick literally right in front of my face at eye level. A bunch of what I am assuming were his friends sat on a picnic table sniggering off to the side. I got up and left, went…

Avid Ontario gym goer here. You know what I did? Bought a subscription to Les Mills online and I rearrange my living room four days a week to workout. I do the same class I used to do a Goodlife (Body Combat) and I live in an apartment downtown Toronto, so it’s not very large. I made it work. There are lots of other…

Recently and I don’t know what to do about it. My younger sister said she ordered something for my birthday and the delivery company wanted my phone number. I’ve been estranged for my mother for 7 years. Less than an hour later I get a message on Instagram from said mother thanking me for my phone number. It’s been…

Recently and I don’t know what to do about it. My younger sister said she ordered something for my birthday and the delivery company wanted my phone number. I’ve been estranged for my mother for 7 years. Less than an hour later I get a message on Instagram from said mother thanking me for my phone number. It’s been…

I thought that until I lived alone and it is the most glorious heaven on Earth and I don’t think I can easily ever live with someone again. Lived with people (up to five other family members or roommates) until I was 32 when my boyfriend broke up with me.

My email and resumes are always under my initials ever since I read JK Rowling was published as such to avoid discrimination for being a woman in my early twenties. Sigh. 

I feel like I am 15 again in the worst and best kind of way. 

Up here in Canada I hope all you American Jezzies are staying safe!!

It’s basically the same as any other app. I find you will see the same people across them all. It’s supposed to be “the app meant to be deleted,” but considering I was asked out three times in under 24 hours with minimal conversation during a pandemic, I get the feeling it’s as fuck boy filled as the rest.

I was on it a few years ago and matched for a summer fling that was nice. I’ve only been back on for 23 hours and am pretty appalled with the men on there so far.

Yesterday I downloaded Hinge out of boredom and within 24 hours, without shame, have been asked out by three men. As in, leave the house and go out with them...where? I am in Ontario and we are still under a state of emergency. I am also taking it all very seriously.

My best friend from high school moved to England to teach and met another Ontarian there. They came home for Christmas and that year my mother had decided to leave my family for her internet boyfriend in the States (that week). I was a full grown adult but my younger brothers were 10 and 12 and my sister was 18, lived…