It's clearly doing us all a real disservice.

I live in UT, home of the Yearbook Photoshopshame Disaster of '014, I know all about that life. It's ridiculous. Like, nobody knows what's under the fig leaf? Spoiler alert: dick and balls. Which half the population has and the other half has seen at some point in their lives. Same goes for the other side! We all have…

THANK YOU! Scout Willis is a hero for showing her nipples to everyone, but Rihanna is a slut because, you know, Black women have no agency whatsoever and are 100% always and forever being manipulated. Fuck that, that dress is ICONIC, I'm sure she's not losing any sleep over it.

Yeah, I don't fundamentally understand the nudity = shameful, "distasteful," et al position. Maybe I have some sort of artist bias, but I think the human body is one of the most exceptional, beautiful landscapes to behold (in all of its diverse presentations!) and I feel grateful to anyone who wants to share that with…

Yeah, I forgot that any woman who has ever made a decision that we know nothing about because we don't know them personally only deserves OUR SCORN AND IRE!

I'm definitely not crying at my desk because of your beautiful, inspiring love. Not crying at all, it's weird you'd bring it up.

Seriously, people are refusing to acknowledge that developmental disorders ("mental retardation") and mental illness ("crazy") ARE NOT THE SAME FUCKING THING.

CBT clearly isn't helping if you think you just "ended up like this." Take responsibility and stop pitying yourself.

"People"

That's always the solution, really.

Now that's just draft, bottles can be up to 13%! I'm also more of a wine and tequila gal myself.

Oh, for real! I lived in Daybreak for like, six months and hightailed outta there. That place is creepy and fake. I've lived in a couple different places in Utah and I think Salt Lake is by far the most preferable.

Fellow Utah Jezzie, there's plenty to hate, but Salt Lake is actually a pretty awesome city. Less than half of the residents are Mormon, tons of parks, cool stores, awesome restaurants, chill music scene. I hated it when I was a kid and I wanted to go back to San Diego, but it really grows on you. Diamond in the…

The sexual repression in my state (UT) is strong.

I have no idea. I've never met them. They aren't under my care. Their request seems highly unreasonable, but theirs is one out of apparently many others. Enough to garner attention of educational institutions and media.

So the people making these requests have what then, fake PTSD?

I don't think TW are necessarily useful or necessary in the academic (or maybe any other) arena, but telling people who have experienced trauma to get the fuck over themselves is shit advice and it makes me sad that people like you will always be there to tell someone else that what happened to them is insignificant…

I get your point, and I don't think these institutions should have TW, but confrontation that leads to panic is not a way to deal with trauma. Trauma (for most people) is best dealt with in counseling which is a completely different environment where an individual knows they are safe and has a professional to guide…

Right? I mean, this guy obviously sucks and it's too bad that it seems to have caused her distress in the beginning, but it sounds like she's ended up enjoying herself with people who actually like spending time with her. I hope she dumps him.

Maybe you've never heard anyone in the world reference different skin tones before, but sometimes people refer to caramel toned Black folks as "light skinned" and other individuals browner than, hell, let's say a paper bag, "dark skinned." I mean exactly what I said.