Completely agree re him watching through the ****ing phone!

Fair enough. And I especially agree with your last sentence. :) (Hence my conflict??)

Holy cow. Right when I’m ready to write her off, she goes and says something like this.

Okay, I’m super-late here, but holy cow I would actually PAY for your “Sex Ed For Adults”!!

Thank you SO much for that link. I’ve been “active” in anti-DV circles for over two decades, yet hadn’t seen that article.