When I saw that I kept thinking “His wife ain’t say that marriage is open” and even if it is that does not mean that she wants her friends in this.

I’m not saying you can. But if they have had a good relationship up until now and she is allowing others to influence her world view when the world changes it view she might change as well and a bridge to communication might be allowed to form

how do i get out of the grays

I am so sorry you had to do this. I have lost 30+ year friendships because of Trump but not family.. I can’t imagine it. From what you’ve described I think the main reason it is hard to see your side is that unlike alot of white people who have black children. She did not “raise” you in the traditional sense and…

I believe deep in my soul that you saved someones life writing this. There is a person who is dealing with similar issues and you have made them feel less alone. Thank you for sharing your battle and I know that it’s a battle you’re going to win.

hey Miss tee!!

What’s the greys?

Hey!! Happy Birthday!!

this made me cackle, lol

Hey boo!

Well i’m happy if they are happy