Ditto. I am ashamed to remember how much effort went into my AIM profile.

“This is the WORST thing that has ever happened to me! I can’t believe no one CARES. And NO I do NOT want to talk about it. LEAVE ME ALONE!!!!!!!”

Yeah actually Katy's input is totally valid and far more on point than Taylor's. Taylor is hypocritical about striking out against other women but expecting a different kind of treatment from others. I'm not sure why she felt the need to write it in jumbled words though..

I mean, she didn’t lie. Taylor doesn’t have to like Katy Perry but using her platform to write a song against her and using her fake industry friends to show Katy that she’s more liked in the industry than her is not feminism. Accusing women of color for “pitting women against each other” when we point out the…

Ya think?

This is only tangentially related, but - The older man I dated used to bring up his previous partners, tell me about them, and then treat me as if I was being childish if I showed the least bit of jealousy/uphappiness about it. He would tell me way too much. Like how he had anal sex with a local beauty queen turned tv…

She def doesn’t because if she did, they wouldn't be together. That's tacky af.

Personally I can’t talk about a few of my exes. Because when you invoke the name of a demon they tend to materialize out of thin air.

Patterns tend to bother me more than specific exes. 100 one night stands wouldn’t bother me. A person who’s only had those 100 one night stands and no longer relationships would worry me, at least if I wanted anything other than a one night stand. Same with someone who has a habit of cheating, or who rebounds from one…

It’s very reminiscent of when Tina Fey and Amy Poehler made a couple of TayTay jokes, and she’s all like “There’s a special place in hell for women who don’t help women” i.e. “there’s a special place in hell for women who don’t fawn all over me.” Also, Bad Blood is pretty weak-sauce. You’d think if you really wanted…

And dear sweet TayTay: if you want to discuss women sticking together that’s fine, but first let’s talk about your playground fight with Katy Perry and your girl gang Bad Blood video, mmmkay?

Yo, Taylor, I’mma let you finish—

Black Twitter is absolutely DRAGGING TayTay and it is probably the greatest thing ever.

I cannot stand it when white women use “women should stick together” to dismiss women of color’s complaints of racism. It’s just like when men of color dismiss women of color’s concerns about sexism because such discussions supposedly aid white supremacy. This is why total and complete intersectionality is important.

TayTay is being very Julia Roberts at Denzel’s Oscar win right now.
Girl, you shoulda sat this one out. Showing your ass. She didn’t call you out! But if the shoe fits, wear it. If your laces weren’t untied, you wouldn’t be tripping! Saddown. —- Your Truther

They already have de-escalating training. More training isn’t going to solve anything. These people make A CHOICE to abuse their position. And because society lets them off of the hook they keep on doing it.

Exactly. He obviously gets off on being a cop & probably sees himself on being a “nice guy” as long as the people/women he pulls over acts really docile & polite. But poor Sandra Bland made the mistake of challenging him & the police (and unfortunately many, mostly white, people) think that warrants an arrest.

Fuck that DA. I heard him on NPR this morning - “Sandra Bland was very combatant. It was not a model traffic stop, and it was not a model person that was stopped on a traffic stop.” More like not a model cop you piece of shit.

No matter the truth, this story is devastating. She was feeling depressed until she got the job in Texas, moved there full of hope and this shit happens. I can understand how this would have rendered her hopeless. RIP Ms. Bland.