Here in SF it’s definitely not just a male thing. Joggers running side by side think they don’t have to move, so I do the shoulder thing too. My husband - who has BIG shoulders - does it too. Especially to people clamoring to get on the bus when riders haven’t exited yet.

That’s incredibly sad.

You’re right! Terrible walk.

That’s the worst thing I’ve heard in my life.

I recommend reading Missoula by Jon Krakauer.

I am obsessed with the music.

My thoughts exactly.

Not sure chocolate and clams go together.

I miss the lunches with my female co-workers and the almost-weekly group lunch (men & women) with cocktails in the early 90's. (Granted, I remember being in the restroom afterwards thinking in a drunken haze, “how am I going to work now?”) Everyone at my current job eats breakfast AND lunch at their desks and it…