It took me a minute, but I think that’s actually a list of 4 separate entities:

We also have pretty good abortion access and maternity leave policies!

Central and very northern (not “northern” like SF”) CA are pretty conservative.

Same. But we’ll remember eventually!

If you don’t move to SF or LA, there are tons of affordable places to live in California. Don’t give up!

Yes.

I’m considering transitioning to an Android as well. Which model did you pick?

Or a quilted garbage bag.

Or a quilted garbage bag.

I read this book a few months ago and learned so much.

“Spillover” is a great, great book. Highly recommended!

I’m with you on this one. There’s what we “should” be able to do, and what is reality. Saying someone is out of touch with reality is not victim-blaming. If I leave my car unlocked with a laptop and cash sitting in the front seat, is it realistic of me to think it won’t get stolen? No, and calling me an idiot for…

I don’t drink at all, never have, and at functions I just order a coke and get on with it. Almost nobody gives me shit about it (the ones who do are usually the ones who feel self-conscious about their own heavy drinking), so you do you and DGAF about anyone else. Congrats on the four years. That’s amazing. <3

Yeah, it’s supposed to be nearly 100 here today. I’d just be happy to wear pants.

Yeah, it’s supposed to be nearly 100 here today. I’d just be happy to wear pants.

Man, I would love to live in (or below!) the Starship Enterprise.

As far as celebrities (or contractors) go, that’s hardly horrible.

Wait, their idea of a sale is like $3 off a $90 item? Hahaha, no.

Wait, their idea of a sale is like $3 off a $90 item? Hahaha, no.

Awesome, thanks! Is this what you get? https://www.beautylish.com/s/bioderma-sen…

Awesome, thanks! Is this what you get? https://www.beautylish.com/s/bioderma-sen…

Where do you buy it? I checked Amazon, but it’s not available and it looks like the seller was shady. (I’m in the U.S., btw.)

Where do you buy it? I checked Amazon, but it’s not available and it looks like the seller was shady. (I’m in the…

I just wash my face with CeraVe foaming cleanser and that gets it off. I’ve never needed a separate makeup remover. Disclaimer: I don’t cake it on, and I don’t use anything that’s waterproof or “long-wearing”

I just wash my face with CeraVe foaming cleanser and that gets it off. I’ve never needed a separate makeup remover.…

Sorry you’re getting a bit of a dogpile. I’m a woman and a feminist, and while I take thoac’s point, I also understand that you are empathizing as best as you can. Thank you for your words of support.