Honestly, it seems like a way to blame the uncomfortable and not-so-great parts of the book on a boorish white guy.

That...really did blow my mind. Wow.

I dye my brows (when I have time), but I’ve also considered getting them microbladed. I just have to be able to justify the money.

I also dye my brows—saves me that extra step in the morning. I’ve also considered getting them microbladed, but I can’t quite justify the $$. And I hear you on wearing less makeup as you get older. I just turned 40 and foundation is definitely getting more like spackle. :(

As a white girl with small eyes, pale, undefined eyebrows and invisible eyelashes, I’ve found it’s harder to look polished without any makeup. My features sort of disappear into face and I just look sad.

Steve+Bucky 4ever. <3

I am happy for her achievement. I admire her finished product from a remove

Animals become emotionally attached to each other and to their humans.

They are awful. I don’t understand why people love them so much.

It’s definitely neither. I’m happy to eat it once a year and have no interest in it any other time.

put my husband’s last name, which I did not take, all over it instead of my actual name

YouTube Kids is also not foolproof. I’ve seen some weird shit on that app that I couldn’t believe my 3 or 5 year olds were watching. The entire business model of YouTube, especially YouTube Kids is really fucked up.

Jeans or death.

I understand what he’s saying. This meets the legal and technical definition of sexual assault, but using that term when we discuss both an unwanted grope and penetrative rape can be confusing. My husband was just talking to me about this this morning. He was of the opinion that calling everything under this umbrella…

Yeah, let’s be honest here. They’re creating a space for Thanksgiving so that they can sell you Thanksgiving shit.

I know exactly what you’re saying. An active “yes” is very different from the absence of “no.” In my late teens/early 20s I would not have been able to make that clear distinction. Nobody talked about it like that (the 90s). I’m glad we’re talking about it now.

I recommend the excellent documentary “Riding Giants” if you want to see more people surfing.

Yasssss, I love those. And you can buy Capri-Blue candles lots of places, not just Anthropologie!

Yasssss, I love those. And you can buy Capri-Blue candles lots of places, not just Anthropologie!

all unnatural!

People warn you about the terrible twos, but it’s really when they turn three that it becomes a challenge.