I was ahead of the curve on “leaving” FB a number of years ago. Dealing with the public aspect of it was one of the things that made me not post much of anything, which means I didn’t really engage the platform in meaningful way, which translated to sort of “why bother” attitude.

I was thinking the same thing... why does this guy bring/allow his wife to come with him to work all the time. I worked at my old job for almost 12+ years, and except for like 2 people that I socialized with a bit over the years, no one had ever even met my exHusband. How is it even working that they are waking up in…

I am not sure how this idea that “skinny jeans look good on everyone” started because count me in the camp that says “no, no they do not.” For one thing, lots of people do not wear the correct size of clothing in the first place, so you are seeing people in clothing that is perhaps a size too small, and it is already…

It’s likely that he was cast and the small scene shot before any of this was known. The movie was released in fall 2016, which means that much of the live action shooting may have been basically completed as of fall 2015, in order to give adequate time for special effects, post production, etc. Movies are also not…

Like a year ago, I FINALLY got my a-hole ex-husband out of the house. I found myself coming home after my day and having a glass of wine or two. I don’t usually drink on “school nights” so I wondered if I was developing a drinking problem. Turns out it was just that every day without my a-hole ExH felt like a party.

It’s true - it’s almost like a little club you belong to. Like the “OMG I have to have my diet coke club.” I really only drank like one soda day, but I had to have my diet Coke. I was doing a fitness program a few years back and one of our challenges was to give up all sweetened beverages - diet or regular. So I gave…

I mean this is pretty much what it comes down to. Sure she could blow the whole thing up an go live the simple life somewhere in Wisconsin or something... but she’s probably not going to do that. I have a good paying job and no kids and it tooke me a while to nut up and divorce my cheating asshole ExH. I was really…

None - no need or want for such a thing. #I have a fucking job.

It is good a thing. I had an emancipation party with a pinata I filled with small bottles of booze, lottery tickets, condoms and candy. I would have done change, but I was worried that the gardener might murder me...

I actually personally know the author of that book and the reason they all dumped her is because she a fucking crazy psycho. She’s also a huge bitch. So there’s that.

I will play - I’m somewhat recently divorced (Yay!), and I have been dabbling in the internet dating. I went out with one guy who within minutes of meeting me said something like “you are actually cuter than pictures. I bet if you had better pictures, you would get a lot of dates” ... or something. It was like weird…

I have a guy friend who just reads as “gay”. Like you would meet him and say “That’s Judah’s gay friend.” Claims to be straight as an arrow and I saw some FB photos a while back of his wedding to a lady person. We are all like “Yeah, OK I guess...” Either he is completely fooling himself or he just has the unfortunate…

I think that when people start trying to legislate morality, basically trying to tell me and you and the guy down the street how we should live (assuming we are not really hurting anyone), that becomes a very different game. When government officials try to create classes of citizens based on things like sexuality -…

That’s cognitive disconnect is really stunning isn’t it. Running for president is like a long, very important job interview. When you are doing a job interview, people check your references and vet how qualified you are for the job. I work in a small, highly specialized field. On occasion, I have made it known,…

I was too... WAS being the operative term. During marriage counseling he basically said I was never allowed to have a critism of him or his behavior because then he would fixate on it and he would be convince that I hated him. He also said that I was not allowed to have an emotional response to his verbal abuse or…

Halloween is also a big deal when you have little kids. Like you get maybe 7 good runs at Halloween when they are little and cute, but able to do the trick or treat thing. By the time most kids are 11 or so, they are sort of outgrowing the cute Halloween phase and they are in the “I want to go with my friends and get…

In my experience, I knew I needed to get divorced, but it took one final push to get me to actually pull the trigger (and I don’t have kids). I wonder if it’s the kind of thing that nags at someone in the back of their mind, they go on the family vacation that was already planned, probably have a mostly miserable…

Huh - waddya know. I have no children, but I still filed in March. I found out in December that he was telling everyone “I haven’t gotten rid of her because I don’t want to give her half”. Fortunately for me, my Dad’s unrelenting advice that “the worst thing you can do is get excited” carried me through. It took me a…

OMG - I think my IT hook-up is a totally slut. He does this laid back thing, but I think he has lots of angles he is working. And you know what - good for you sir. Get that tail.

You know - this was very timely. Just went through a divorce, long dry spell prior to actual divorce, and was so disinterested in sex that I seriously thought my libido had just died. Turns out I just hated the person I was legally obligated to bone, so my body just wanted to skip the boning all together. Like a gift…