she actually specifically expressed that there was nothing wrong with a small penis " you can put that in my butt" she said- she implied she didn't appreciate men with low self-esteems or whose self-esteem a are completely tied to the size of their penis.

I certainly hope there are also Concerned White Students at UVA who stand with Martese.

Not trying to come at you, but how do you reconcile this with any kind of social constructionist theory? Monogamy/polyamory seems to be kind of a superficial aspect of human life to be linking it to such things as evolutionary biology. That's at least how it seems to me, especially since the romantic monogamous…

You want to fuck other dudes, your husband isn't into it. He needs therapy?

If you're trying to get your husband to be something he's not, maybe you're the one who needs therapy.

Right, that whole slavery thing was just everyone misunderstanding the founding fathers for a hundred years. Please, they weren't that noble.

uh, really? If you aren't white or black, a common question people who were born and raised in America get asked is "where are you from?" and giving a reply like "Boston" isn't good enough. The common follow up, "No, where are you REALLY from?" I doubt white or black people get that question, it is somehow implied in…

Reading them one after another has the cumulative effect of rendering my pussy drier than an economic policy lecture delivered by Aubrey Plaza.

"Perhaps most unrealistically, its male protagonist is a 27-year-old man living in Seattle who wears ironed shirts, cleans his room, and has his shit together."

Fans ate them up like Christian ate Anastasia's asshole in Book two: disgustingly, and with no regard for the shit they were putting in their face.

If you live in the UK, there's probably sex shop in the next village over, discreetly disguised. Perhaps as an adult bookstore or curio shop. You seem pretty uptight; maybe you could stand to give one a visit.

You actually need to educate yourself, although I suspect that you are a rape-apologist and have no desire to. As for my age, that is irrelevant, but the fact that I have a degree in psychology sure is. What is your education that you have such expertise in the "biological" basis of rape? Please site some…

It probably bothers you because it is complete and utter bullshit, designed to excuse pathological male's behavior. Think of all of the rapists that have "normal" sexual relationships & still rape other women. Cosby (wife and kids) for one. That piece of shit football player that brought his drunken GF/ date to be…

Consent education for all genders (and a change of cultural understanding of rape), and making victim-blame-y questions about clothes or whether she had sex with him before or anything illegal to ask during court proceedings.

You answered your own question.

Dear Josie: You are my hero.