Well, if she's got a clit under there, I could see her responding to pressure and rubbing in that area even if you can't actually see the clit. She could still feel it, surely?

I've noticed this trend over the past 10 years or so, too. It does seem like people are taking social stuff less seriously and having less respect for other people's time - canceling at the last minute or simply never showing up, and not even apologizing.