I think the answer is both, if that makes sense. I happen to have found a career that I love and am super passionate about and could never see myself doing anything else. The guys I've dated in the past 10 years, not so much. IDK why, but I pick guys who aren't very goal oriented, even though I'm super ambitious. For…

I've got nothing... Those are all great messages, and if I was still online dating the only reason I wouldn't respond to those was if you had a really awful profile.

These are all sound like you're showing off how witty you are. They might strike a person as being overly self-iinvolved. If your goal is to get a response, maybe something a little bit simpler and more sincere would be in order? (Spoken by someone with zero online dating experience).

Ahhhh! I'm super-selective in who I reply to and I would respond to all of these!

It's impossible but I'm going to pretend you are my IRL friend who does the same shit and tell you again I don't understand why you never get responses to these.

In my brief time on OKC, I've become overwhelmed with the volume of messages and trying to communicate with multiple people back and forth. Obviously I ignore the "your hot" messages but sometimes other messages get ignored because I feel like I don't have time to answer all of them.

I'd like to take you out for coffee.

Those are awesome. And I've had zero luck with OKC too. I'm saving some of the shinier gems I run across on others' profiles. My latest favorite profile was just a laundry list of, "If you're the kind of woman who (whatever), don't email me." His whole profile was like that.

The last one made me laugh out loud :)