I have been a subscriber of this philosophy with my own kid. He never has to kiss someone, and when a relative or whoever tries to go for it anyway, I tell them kindly but firmly "No." (Sadly, I have to do this kind of a lot sometimes, but hopefully him hearing me stand up for his autonomy will have a similar effect.)…

What are you doing to stop rapists? Nothing. What are you doing to blame women for their rapes? Pontificating about unfortunate realities and how women need to never wear this or go here or have more than two drinks.