A thing I’ve learned is that sometimes people don’t want a response at all.  They just want to say what they’re feeling.  Unless this is a person physically present in your life, there’s no need to feel you have to reply or respond unless they’re specifically asking.  

He did in the early 80s - kind of - and then came back by the end of the decade.  

Aw, don’t blame Nightcrawler. My sis liked him in the 80s. Also...weren’t we all cuter when we were younger?

What’s the difference between a banjo and a chainsaw?

I think a thread that runs through GOP-leaning male POC is machoism, worship of traditional masculinity, and related misogynist and homophobic attitudes. Similarly, conservative religion, particularly anti-abortion attitudes, seems to bring in a segment of some POC voters.

This guy:

Would very much appreciate if Cannibal Witch were to weigh in on the topic if possible.  I know she’s no longer a staffer but maybe could she sit in on a crone-care panel?  

(TL;DR = I, a man, do not feel a loss of power from the effort for more equality, and generally do feel relieved not having to care about that stuff or hating myself because I can’t play the toxic-masc roles.)

51-year-old cis-het male replying. I can only speak for myself and I don’t have the sense my takes represent…

I have a line on Godiva chocolates if that, ah, sweetens the deal. 

Hey, if you make it to Philadelphia I’ll shelter a few troops.  There’s a couple spare bedrooms.  I have air conditioners!  

Drama...in the LAND of CHOCOLATE?? Oh no!

My thought as well.  

I apologize for suggesting you were the Tomato troll. Tomato was never this funny.

I think this (C-J), and another account I saw in the greys last night,are the return of the Tomato troll, whom I haven’t seen around since the demise of Splinter.

Does he lack even a shred of self-awareness, or is he trolling?

They thought “sub-par” referred to their golf scores.

FINally.  Couldn’t believe I scrolled down this far before someone made the joke.  I was afraid I’d have to do it myself.  Thank you!

Nifty idea. Maybe could try it with dancefloors also!