I reject it not because I don’t understand how it works, I reject it simply because common sense tells me that there is and never will be a sure win magical thing where everyone wins.
For someone to win, someone else has to lose.

I'll break down the friend zone for you, since it's a loser male myth. The "friendzone" is you agreeing to let your "friend" have the spotlight while you meekly walk 10 paces behind her. The guy who's going to make a solid first impression is the guy who says "going my way?", urges her to keep up, and assumes she's…

But here's the thing.