Right, but nobody is taking that right away from her.

Right.

That is the way it is currently, and it is not ideal.

But we're not talking about a child. We're talking about a fetus.

If you are a man who would not step up in the event of an unplanned pregnancy, then it is your responsibility to either not have sex in the first place or use adequate protection.

You can disagree with that. I still don't see how telling men 'if you didn't want to get somebody pregnant, you shouldn't have had sex' is any better than pro-lifers telling women 'if you didn't want to get pregnant, you shouldn't have had sex'.

You sound like a pro-lifer: