Who is friends with ex's on FB? Not necessarily the recent ones but the old ones. I have 4 (and 1 fling) and I know I'm doing it just for the stalking since things didn't necessarily end well with them. I'm okay with them stalking me back since my life is great now—better without them—but I kind of think the whole…

@Runaddict: I think if a guy doesn't like being kissed on the neck, it just means he never had someone do it right. I've been able to bowl over my fair share of guys with a little neck and ear work. No complaints.

Needing hair advice. I've recently gone short-ish after being long and wearing it back for most of my life. Hair is too curly to be called wavy but not super curly. What to do with 2nd day hair? After sleeping on it it is just a limp, sad mess. Do I have to get it wet again or is there some solution? Right now…

@Cam/ron: Read the book. Have no plans to see the movie. Didn't see how it could work on any level and knew the ending would bug me just as much the 2nd time. Sorry it sucked for you.

@Scout: It's definitely worth trying. It's gorgeously shot, and when it's good it's some of the best around. That said, because it involves high schoolers there are some plot lines that are less than fabulously written and border on contrived. But I keep coming back if only because I love the marriage of the two…

@The HZA.: That's true. But it's different for different people. With a new doctor he could get guided through it and see how it plays out.

@elijabet: Can't give recommendations, but make sure it's spiral bound. You want to be able to do it one-handed.

@NoodlePress: Sounds like your doctor doesn't know what a sex drive is. So not a good source, eh? Get a new one stat.

@Buggie: I don't think there's a connection. If only because I know women who have it for some pregnancies and not others.

@TheFormerJuneBronson: I hate being pregnant, too. And I can't stand people who are all touchy feely earth mothery about it. I avoid them like the plague. Ugh. It will end. Eventually. And then food will be so so so wonderful.

@The HZA.: Yes, new doc. Husband had sexual side effects on Lexapro. Now is switched to a new one (took him forever to finally decide to do it) and it's no longer an issue. If doctor isn't useful, get a new one. (If he's getting them from his GP, he may want to look into seeing a psychiatrist.)

@LadyCoCo: I don't read that stuff much. But it doesn't mean I don't write mine down anyway. I don't even care if people read it, I just like putting it out there.

@elijabet: Yeah, lots of calling is pretty much all you can do. Ask for supervisors. Take notes, get names, demand paperwork. Ask for supervisors again. Repeat repeat repeat. Ah, private health insurance. Sucks.

@piratabeata: You can keep trying doctors, but you probably won't have much luck. Those kinds of symptoms often leave you in the lurch. My sister had something similar-ish and spent years getting diagnosed and only was through luck. Still paying out the nose for Dr. bills and has to see multiple specialists. Not…

@wtfox?!: I'm not necessarily with the defenders. To some extent, I understand that it must be crazy to have someone you care about in that situation and there's a defense mechanism to try and stand as a character witness. It mostly bugs me that whether you're for or against him, that his art has anything to do with…

I don't see how saying his movie is good and he did well directing it is a "show of support" for him as a person. Art does not equal artist. Does it make me a bad person that I think Chinatown and Rosemary's Baby are some of the best movies ever made?

@Adah: I feel no guilt whatsoever. I listen to Wagner and he was a big fat anti-semitic jerk. Art does not equal artist. I will always love Roman Polanski movies. And, you know what, I'm just throwing this out there to probably get flamed, but to me the fact that he once did something really bad and stupid does…

This kind of stuff is illegal in many states. Now I'm really hoping it's illegal in Pennsylvania.

@1979semifinalist: I had the exact same thing happen. I was thinking, "Yeah, the name should have been a tip-off!"

@doodley is not amused: Completely with you. 30 day orders can be a little more unusual. Dad here was way out of line and totally knew it, too. Glad he's not my client.