This is a nice way to frame things.

It is one of the first projects you two will tackle together, so ensure you are tackling it truly together.

Holy shit, I’m 30 and am in a long term relationship and my girl has been giving me the “hey so uhhhhh” hint for a while now. Not gonna do it any time soon because of work and life, but just wanted to tell you that this is the most useful piece of advice I’ve read or been told about weddings and marriage in general.

Thank you, that’s pretty solid advice.

So my Wife and I (when we had met) only knew each other for like a few weeks through work. We went out one day (there was a spark there between us) and she kissed me after at the end of the night (I hand’t provoked it). What if she had read the signals wrong and I was just a friend, would this make her a predator? I’m…

No offense but you fuckers are nuts.

And of course when a runner totally trucks his tackler it’s known as a “Tongan sidestep”

Rugby player here. The haka is terrifying to watch. The only thing more terrifying is to play a team full of Islanders. Imagine a game where 11/15 of the players on the other team are built like defensive backs (6'2", 225), 2/15 are built like running backs (6'0", 200) and can run a 4.7 40, and 2/15 are built like…

To be fair I was mostly trying to get to the part where I advocated never cooking anything in a pot that wasn’t covered in oil, bacon grease, butter, or lard.

Thing is pots and pans have to soak. So you put them in warm water overnight and in the morning you just continue to ignore them forever until they rust away like all of life’s problems.

I believe you, and want to let you know, you did not deserve that. Not a single breath you took, word you spoke or action you made, none of those things make you responsible. It is incredibly strong of you to break your silence now, even anonymously. Thank you for sharing.

Songs that should never be played again, an incomplete list:

I had the same feelings about a man who tried to molest me when I was 13. I was already the social geeky outcast, and at that point where you’re trying to figure out what and who you are. I’m sorry you still carry that weight of asking yourself what’s wrong inside you. You’re wonderful and good, what those men did was…

god please let us end corn subsidies

Honestly good. I’m all for making EVs but why would I as a taxpayer be supplementing $8000 off Johnnys new tesla model 3? If Johnny wants a Model 3 he can full price for it!

Thank you for so beautifully writing out the feelings that I have had about this whole situation. I too, was molested as a kid by an older cousin-and later a teacher from our community who did theatre with me- and it took me years to reconcile those experiences (and to be honest, I’m still trying to deal with them…

“Being assaulted by a man who later acknowledged being gay confused me so much about my own sexuality because I connected my sexuality to being abused. It took years to rework that my sexuality was not borne out of pain.”

These are outstanding responses and the only way to minimize the office damage they do is to cooperate, take accountability for your lack of timeliness and get right on them.

My company partnered with an outside IT department and I just finished an email to one of their people about a project I was supposed to have details on over a month ago. It went something like this:

“Can I check with your supervisor about your availability”