I have a June birthday... I've had ONE year where I could bring cupcakes to class for my birthday, and it was the last day of school anyway. Plus all my peers always left for vacations so I never really had parties, haha.

I just really hope it's really, really good so that it's harder for the right-wingers to attack.

Also very true!

He's obviously not a real Tolkien fan... elves can't be raped.

My grandmother told me that. I told her I wasn't in the mood to buy a whole pig if all I wanted was a little sausage once in a while.

Well obviously I'm a dude, because my phone is huge and I love it because it's way easier to type on... my boyfriend has an iphone and I'm always hitting the wrong keys O_O

Well, it's not like you can really learn much else about your baby in utero. The sex is (presumably) the only permanent thing you can learn about, unless it has a deformity or a condition that can be tested for prenatally (e.g. Down Syndrome).

I think I might be a kidadult. Except that I can cook and do laundry and manage my finances. Everything else seems like pointless work to me- stuff that just takes up time and has to be done over and over and over again in a never ending loop. I function just fine by myself, BTW, but I don't see the point of all of…

Storing marbles? Smuggling drugs?

Send 'em my way.

Maybe they just breathe differently or they're doing performance art, Judgy Jane.

I prefer it shaved except for a little patch in the middle (which is kept short and only there for a bit of protection from man-hair-chafe during special time). Don't patronize me and tell me it's because I just want to make a man happy.

Exactly.

They would not be able to reproduce with me. I would not be able to have kids with a trans man who had previously frozen their eggs... because I also have eggs. So, no, it's not reallllly possible for me and them to have kids.

No, because I'm assuming she never knowingly lied about her ability to have kids.

I try to get a feeler very early on. I don't do casual dating so that probably makes it easier.

I would be so upset if I were dating someone who later came out (during our relationship) as trans. Not so much because of them being trans, but I just would feel like I'd been lied to about their past. It'd be different if I knew from the beginning. You can say "but a trans X IS a X," but that doesn't change the fact…

Yes! I agree! I wear long pants every damn day unless... unless... yeah, unless I'm a) going swimming, or b) not wearing anything at all (and I often do walk around my house in a shirt and nothing else)

Which, presumably, is being paid for at least partially by her parents.

I'm so sorry. My four year old little boy died very unexpectedly on Wednesday and I've been bawling my eyes out for the last few days... it's so hard, I feel your pain. I had mine since he was a wee little kitten, and I think I've cried more and taken it harder than when either of my grandparents died.