No I haven’t... but good attempt.

my entire comment was basically off your first question. You being too dumb to read it doesn’t mean I glossed over it.

this is the dumbest dismissal of facts I’ve ever seen. My life tells me that dinosaurs never existed. I haven’t seen them... thankfully we have that pesky thing called science.

I’m not disagreeing with anything you said until the last two lines...

Your “only assholes commit suicide” stance is not exactly contributing to a positive, supportive dialogue on mental illness.

Look, I know you’re really trying hard to pigeon hole me into saying things I didn’t say or insinuate, but it ain’t happening. The moment he offed himself? Sure, he is a shitty father in that moment. And a selfish asshole. You’re trying to take my statements and lead them five steps down roads I’m not even walking…

there are years worth of studies and psychologists who would tell you that you’re wrong.

That’s painting a pretty broad stroke.

While HS is a turbulent time in someone’s life, they also have an emotional maturity, individuality and most often a lack of dependency that someone who is say, 4 or 5, would have. Death sucks no matter how old you are. But at least at a high school age you’re in a much better position to work through it. I’m ignoring…

Sorry to hear that... I really am.

Vague question that’s impossible to answer without more circumstances around it IMO. BUT, I know that’s not the answer you’re looking for either. I would lean toward no it wouldn’t be until I learned more. I would even feel differently if the kids he has were grown - even high school age and above. But that young? Nah…

Let’s be clear about something. What I said specifically did not fit the bullshit you wanted to spew back at me, so you literally made up a quote that fit what you wanted. That’s fucking weird in any discussion... mate. So let me know when you’re ready to have an honest and genuine discussion, and not just make shit…

ahhh, the old “we disagree so clearly you have no experience” argument. Get a new schtick. Thanks ;)

No. I’m only using the information available. I’ve assumed nothing outside of knowing that he is not an absentee father for two young children and has now deprived them of having a father. Let me know when I’ve said something that isn’t fact. K? K.

Fuck you’re stupid... I mean, you wrote an entire post based off something I didn’t say, but rather something you WANTED it to say. Well done. Mate.

Nah. I do. He’s still an asshole.

Yeah... there’s making someone else happy - and then there’s having two really young children who need their father. Let’s not conveniently gloss it over by calling them simply someone else. If the kids were grown, I’d feel a lot differently. But they’re not.

then we cross that bridge when we get there. But I’m not going to comment on a grossly hypothetical situation that has no evidence to support it when discussing such a serious situation. That’s Nancy Grace shit.

I can’t really disagree with you (except for the “may have acted selfishly” part. He absolutely did). My mom suffered from depression and had contemplated suicide I know before she died... We’ll never know what was in his head and what was happening just like I never truly knew what was happening in her head.…

I’ll preface this by saying I don’t buy into the “suicide is selfish” narrative, but eff this dude man. Two young kids and a wife? Sorry, but it takes a complete asshole to off themselves with two young kids still.