yup, she is definitely not allowed to do both of those things at the same time. IF YOU WANT TO ADVOCATE FOR THE POOR YOU HAVE TO BE POOR, MIA! (ignoring for a moment the fact that no one would listen to you)

Cheating is between the two people in a relationship. They have to work that shit out. I’m not a part of it, no matter what I think of it.

I don't understand this logic. Why wouldn't these people be concerned for their families? I hate this generalization that all cheating is equal and that all extra marital sex involves some sleepy affair. This is sex negative culture at play rearing its ugly head.