jessphilosoraptor
Jess, Queen of the Raptors
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Thank you. Also, we agree on throuple. Never throuple. Yeah, I got the sense this was a bad example (also this format does not lend itself to answering questions that might make it seem healthier - the first wife seems extremely determined that THIS WAS ALL MY IDEA in a way that reads defensive, but is it defensive

The two women’s lack of romantic involvement with each other is not mutually exclusive to polyamory. It just makes them a vee and not a triad. What would, however, qualify them as polygamous is if the women lack the equal freedom to take on additional male partners.

So any relationship with more than 2 people can be considered polyamory as long as we’re talking consenting adults? Is that the difference with polygamy or do the terms actually mean the same thing or is polygamy something that would fall under the umbrella of polyamory? (I’m sorry. I don’t think I know anyone in an

Poly comes in all kinds of different configurations. Basically it’s just ethical non-monogamy where multiple intimate or romantic relationships are possible.

Honestly, this is not polyamory. This is a case of a woman who is desperately in need of counseling.

If you find that, PLEASE let me know. Though I will say, in my decade-plus of poly, it’s WAY, WAY more common for a woman to have two male partners than vis versa.

Oh man. I know Polyamory comes in many flavors, but that one is just... sad. Couldn’t they find a poly threesome of three folks happy and madly in love with each other? Guess a lot of that demographic don’t give a shit about expensive wedding dresses...

Darth Trump.

We’re talking about a series where peace and serenity triumphed over hatred and lust for power, and where a hot chick in a bikini released herself and then returned to her position of political and military power. Are we really thinking Trump gets those movies?

As if Darth Vader would wear tacky ass yellow gold.

The last part of your comment is so ON POINT. Can’t help laughing out loud!

Chris Evans wouldn’t be allowed to return to Massachusetts if he spoke out against Brady. His uncle would probably be voted out of office if Chris went on the record against Tom Brady.

“You have women that are active out in these streets, they going to lunches and dinners every night”

I can only wish for such arrogance.

This is excellent, excellent advice.

I almost admire people who can go on dates all the time, for me I only go on a couple a year sometimes it leads to a few more dates sometimes it doesn’t. But when they end I always feel mentally exhausted from it, I can’t imagine putting myself through that every week.   And that is why I am a 30 yr old single guy.

Here’s my library of flaws :)

Dating is like depression: the only way to overcome the horror is to step back and try to admire, as a third party, the chaos that is ensuing.