No, you aren't straight. But you might be bi, you might be pansexual. And yes, there have been many many situations of a bisexual person being told 'I want you to be straight.' or 'I want you to be gay' because 'bisexual isn't a real identity, it's just refusing to choose.'

No, you aren't straight. But you might be bi, you might be pansexual. And yes, there have been many many situations of a bisexual person being told 'I want you to be straight.' or 'I want you to be gay' because 'bisexual isn't a real identity, it's just refusing to choose.'

Okay, at this point you are debating the specific meaning of the word 'orientation' while agreeing that polyamory can be an identity. Essentially, you are agreeing with my criticism of Mr. Savage while disagreeing with my word choice.

Okay, at this point you are debating the specific meaning of the word 'orientation' while agreeing that polyamory can be an identity. Essentially, you are agreeing with my criticism of Mr. Savage while disagreeing with my word choice.

I'd be curious as to your take on Ms Tweedy's work on polyamory as an orientation. http://papers.ssrn.com/sol3…

I'd be curious as to your take on Ms Tweedy's work on polyamory as an orientation. http://papers.ssrn.com/sol3…