You are very welcome! I joke that (as a Librarian) I ‘answer questions for a living’ - although today, I’ve unclogged 2 toilets, and threatened to call the police on someone... All in a day’s work.

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if you think patience is the most important thing when raising kids but you have to get high to be patient then MAYBE you shouldn’t have kids.

Something like this just happened to a friend’s mom last night - she saw a cyclist laying in the road, he’d been hit by a car (hit & run), his legs were shattered, and he told her that he’d been lying there for quite some time while cars just drove by. She called an ambulance for him and waited with him.

::pours vodka in orange, coffee and cereal:: Hello, Thursday, we meet again. ::packs bottle in bag for “lunch”::

This would be deliciously funny if an innocent kid hadn’t been scarred for life. Fuuuck. Guessing the authorities chalk this up to an accident as per usual.

I tend to believe women actually do know what best when it come to their own lives. Or at least, they know better than I do. And I also don’t think selfish always. means bad.

Yes value judgments about what women do being ‘best’ for our families always work out great for women to glad you included that.

The great thing about feminism is that is women get to decide what's important for ourselves.

Well I don’t know anyone who is pro-abortion. I know a lot of people who are pro-choice: a stance that I believe encompasses a general belief that women should be able to do what we want inside our own bodies.

Yeah. I agree that for me, it would be ridiculous, but it’s her body. And somebody else’s uterus. But still. Her body. So, just as long as we can have our preferences and STILL support her in her choice, we’re all good.

What bothers me is that somehow this situation makes otherwise liberal minded women feel the need to get all judgy about other women’s reproductive choices. BECAUSE PEOPLE JUDGING WOMEN’S REPRODUCTIVE CHOICES ALWAYS WORKS OUT SO WELL FOR US.

No, she only has to take anti-rejection drugs until she has the uterus removed, after one or two pregnancies. Let’s assume that she’s considered whether this is right for her and her family, since she’s a grown ass woman and all.

I had to have a joint repaired using “donor bone” and it skeeved me out (dead guy’s haunted skeleton is in me!) but now I can walk so I’m cool.

I have been pregnant and given birth and yes, I think most would argue the end product is the most important thing.

Storage space? You know, like finishing your basement.