Because "get an office job" is something you can just magically do and anyone who wants one can have one.

I feel like - it's OK for people of both sexes to think to themselves (and possibly mutter to friends) "no eye candy here, too bad" or "no cute guys/gals to look at - oh well" before getting on with their lives. It is NOT OK to post that to Facebook as though you're entitled to hot ass at your neuroscience conference.

I would have to be killer desperate for a job to even consider giving an employer my password (I wouldn't be going into a public sector job anyway - I am a teacher but not in the USA and I'm not a schoolteacher. I don't even like kids). If I didn't need the job I would in all seriousness just tell them..."no, I'm not…

I don't think anyone here is saying they'd actually want to date Lochte. They wouldn't want to be around him longer than needed to hit-and-run. We'd (well, they'd - he's not my type even looks-wise) use him for sex and then run away before he could say anything. If that's what a guy wants, then yeah, he could emulate…

I know, and I love it.

I actually don't think he is. I go for slightly goofy-looking types like Phelps.

In "Ted", Mark Wahlberg's character says at one point, that he was planning to walk, didn't need a ride, and it was OK because "if I get raped, I'll deserve it 'cause of what I'm wearing".

I've read pretty much every reply, both in favor of and critical of what this woman did...and I'm coming down in favor. In fact, in her position, I'd like to think that I'd do something similar (I did once repel a would-be mugger by scratching his face and getting him right in the eye, but I am not sure I'd react in…

GAAAAAAHHHH MY BRAIN

1. "You see us as projects you can 'fix.'"

You don't need to wear white, or cream, or any other light color either.

From Grandma: "Don't look for Mr. Right, look for Dr. Right!"

I've lived in Taiwan for 5 1/2...and am an average looking white girl. I agree mostly about Taiwanese men: by our standards a lot of them are "effeminate", and a lot of them who like a foreign girl won't come out and say so.

"How am I going to remember them? I'm not" - err, if you really like someone, you remember them. You just do.

I live in Taiwan (I'm a Western woman married to a Western man).

I haven't read everything but so far I haven't seen this point brought up: how on earth is the school going to catch the girls who decide to stay on Facebook? Change your name and hide your e-mail, or if you have a common name, keep your real name knowing that you could be any given person in New York with that name:…