people are not legally bound to show up (even when they said they would).

I mean... I know the world doesn’t revolve around my wedding. I will completely understand if people can’t/don’t want to come. But... from a logistical, event-planning standpoint, if you RSVP “yes,” you better come unless you have a VERY good reason. And yes, I’d count childcare falling through as a good reason. See…

RIGHT? I cannot stand people who make you track them down to RSVP. I had to do this for my wedding and for multiple bridal showers/baby showers I have thrown for friends or family. It is insane. RSVP people. It isn’t hard, all you have to do is check your calendar/decide if you can make it, select a box and drop it in…

Totally get the DESIRE to do this, definitely wouldn’t act upon it. I had several people RSVP to our wedding and no show without so much as a text or a card and would have LOVED in my wildest dreams to do that, but those are dreams and I had to be content in just huffing and puffing and being personally done with…

I can see really wanting to do this if it’s obvious the person flaked for no good reason, but I could never fathom actually doing it. Talk about passive-aggressive bullshit. If you’re really that hurt, then you need to suck it up and call the person and just say “Hey, I was really hoping to see you there. What…

Buffets are billed by the guest count, same as plated catering. This is tacky beyond words, but no matter what type of catering you order you’re out the cost-per-person if someone no shows.