Every man, if he's honest, knows that one guy who you suspect won't take No for an answer. Too many of us make excuses for "that guy" when we should be telling him that women are allowed to say No, that when a woman says No, what you do is smile, and *pleasantly* say, "OK, well have a good night anyway!" and then…

I don't think a lot of people understand "Hallelujah", they think it's some kind of glorious hymn when it's actually about a relationship that crashed and burned so spectacularly that only Biblical metaphors can describe it.

Those "extra verses" were all sung by Leonard Cohen at various live performances. There are about twenty. John Cale gathered his favorites and used them in his version, Buckley picked them up from that version and that's what a lot of people think of as the song today. Cohen actually did a seven-verse version in…