All of that is considered cheating by someone.

I notice that people who usually aren’t monogamous or are pushing polyamory always claim that everyone is cheating all of the time, but they don’t provide any definitive proof, aside from what it says in the pages of “Sex at Dawn.” I absolutely agree that marriage is not for everyone and most relationships simply…

It took me until my 40s to figure that out but totally agree. Everyone I know who stayed together after an affair eventually ended up splitting, unless we’re talking about people married pre-1960. Then they stayed and tortured the fuck out of their partner (who usually continued to cheat), thought they were noble for…

There’s a huge difference between “that one time five years ago I fucked Susie at 3 AM while drunk after a party” and someone cheating on your for 8 years. Your marriage is utterly trashed and done. Just...leave. :-/ You can’t trust someone like that.

People like to use the “everyone cheats” or “humans are just not monogamous” arguments to justify their own priorities and poor impulse control, but man, what a weak excuse. If you can’t be faithful to one person, ok, but you need to be up front about that, and they need to be able to choose whether or not your…

There is ABSOLUTELY NO reason and NO excuse to not tell your partner when you cheated. If you’re for any reason too afraid too tell, than you’re not made for each other, anyway. Then you’re just a bad human being, a selfish existence keeping this secret just to not be alone.

Cheating isn’t always a sign something is wrong. This is a really big misconception about infidelity. They’ve actually done studies on it and in a majority of cases people who cheat can’t name a single thing wrong with their relationship, they just cheated. They made a bad decision, possibly just one time, and don’t…

the worse thing I ever did was cheat - will never do it again. anyone who tells you that hiding it is okay, is someone who can never be trsuted. ever.