Your entire comment assumes that she is responsible for sending signals for him to misinterpret when she explicitly said she would not have sex with him. She is also responsible, in your opinion, for not picking up on his signals when he specifically said he wanted her to share a bed with him and that he was alright…

I used to think blue balls was something guys made up to guilt girls into sex. Now I know that it is a real thing that guys use to guilt girls into sex. The cure is literally in your hands. Girls do not "blue ball" guys.

As a woman, I'd really appreciate a guy who would just say "I'm not at all interested in being your friend, I'll put up with talking to you if you'll fuck me, otherwise please don't ask me to hang out or accept my invitation to hang out unless you can guarantee me some sex," in those exact words, so I can get the…

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I wonder if Thisagain realizes that he or she is totally reinforcing the validity of your point.

So she should know that when he asked if he could come up to her apartment, he was asking for an absolute guarantee of sex and that an affirmative answer would be a guarantee of sex, but he should not be expected to know that a suggestion of caffeine free tea so as not to keep him awake was a rejection of sex? Hmm. …

Thanks for looking into that. I am not an economist by any stretch, but I am under the impression that a penny in the 50's was worth more than a penny is today. Inflation or maybe some other economic phenomena that I don't understand would need to be taken into account when comparing those prices.

It would be interesting to compare the price of Coke 100 years ago with the price of Coke now that it is sweetened with artificially cheap corn syrup and packaged in light, durable plastic. I'm not going to blame Coke specifically for obesity, I would blame government subsidized corn and post "green revolution" wheat…

That's an awful story. I think if my body responded during a rape it would probably add an extra dimension to my suffering.

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You gave one example of how secretly recording a sexual encounter saved some good people from a shitty person. I don't think this one incident is enough to make most people conclude that it is always or even usually justifiable to unlawfully surveil naked people on private property.

Please be kind to yourself. You are not a loser or an asshole.

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Women are socialized to be passive and accommodating, many people are embarrassed to talk about sex, many women don't masturbate or wait until much later than boys to do it so they may not really know what they need, media portrayals of female sexuality usually frame it in relation to heterosexual male desire which…

I don't necessarily have orgasms super easily, but I do come sometimes when my husband sets out to get me off. The problem is that I sometimes feel like he's "making me" come, like it's just a physical response when what I want is passion and connection, and I think he does it so that he can put his dick in me after…

Shit, I think Beck is a really great musician, I didn't know he was a scientologist! Oh well, I guess everyone is a mixed bag of good and bad. I suppose future historians will find quite a mixed bag of good and bad when they peruse through the old internet of this decade.

I hear that Beck released not a new album, but an "album" of new, original sheet music for anyone to adapt and interpret to any instrument they want. He was interviewed by Gian Gomeshi from CBC's show called "Q". He mentioned that when shit hits the fan, everything he has ever recorded could become impossible to…

The other replies explained it quite well but I would add that for some reason these doctors are not making any distinction between the effects of chronic stress and acute stress, the former possibly preventing ovulation and the latter not so much. I suppose they have an agenda and they probably know the difference…

Yeah, it was really my husband's loss for missing out on something so culturally significant as a collection of mustached cat photos.

It was unskillful for EbenHJ to say that breast are only meant for feeding babies and that their potential function in the act that creates said babies (or even just a bond between people) is secondary, but I wouldn't go so far as to say that lactation is no longer a necessary function of our organism.