Meanwhile, I’m over here living the dream. Boyfriend loves Fallout and RTS. I’m a Dark Souls and action-adventure type of gal. We share a love of horror-survival. Our monitors are even next to each other. We’re both mostly PC gamers but then we adopted a PS4 that I mostly use for Overwatch and Bloodborne.

I’m going to recommend that commenters not reply to the bigots and trolls that will inevitably swarm the comments section with their gatekeeping nonsense. Rather, report them to the Kinja Helpdesk (http://kinja.desk.com/customer/portal/emails/new), including links or screenshots of the troll’s comments. The mods will…