Because you can send me an encrypted secret email if you want to leak me information and you don't want it traced back to you! It's a new thing we've rolled out. Natasha Vargas-Cooper and I are the Jez staffers with encrypted email setups.

You just support chaos.

My idea: after the two point conversion, a team can kick a 60-yard PAT for another two points, but it's double or nothing. Make it? You get your 10 points. Miss? Back down to six.

I don't feel like there get to be gatekeepers for who is allowed to say they feel queer.

I feel this article is kind of pandering to this one very opinionated asexual, you can't let one person define a sexual orientation. The original article spoke in person with several a sexual people, just because their feelings didn't match up with the posters doesn't mean they were wrong.

Guess what? You're full of shit!

My wife works 60+ hours a week. Cleaning up after herself at times can be near impossible. If we had kids it would basically be impossible. I work 50+ hours a week, but I'm going to be doing the majority of the childcare. Where do we get this extra time? I'm more than willing to pay others living wages.

Polyamory is deeply stigmatized

When did I say it was a zero sum game? I just said it takes lots of work, communication and a willingness to listen to what other people need in a relationship.

The TL;DR version:

ETA: And I think my biggest thing is monogamy requires discipline, hard work, and self control which are things I place value in and things that I would want from a partner.

This is going to come off as a bit "conservative", and maybe I just don't get it.... but the thing I just don't understand is why you can't just be very good friends with your partner and talk to him about the anxiety stuff that your husband doesn't understand? Why must it include a physical/amorous relationship?

"It's hard to argue with nonmonogamy when the science is so clearly laid out for you."

I immediately tuned out after Sex at Dawn. Sorry.

This is a good point, but I think it's important not to constantly be "on the campaign trail", as it were, when it comes to talking about your life choices and decisions. You don't need to prove that Sumerians had multiple wives or how a psychological experiment showed that atheists were just as compassionate as…

THANK YOU. People who write this sort of thing are misappropriating information to give their opinions a boost — and usually turn a profit. Whether it's what types of food you eat or how many people you date or love, please: stop trying to be 'right' in a situation where there is no right or wrong. If you must write a…

I know, I'm just being a shit.

Real question though... Do both of these men in your love triangle also get to go have sex with other people on their 'off nights' ?

It seems like this situation/lifestyle really only benefits one person per relationship based on the stories I've heard. I don't do 'relationships' but I try…

For me personally, all of that required communication and processing and staying up talking for hours about the relationship outweighs any of the potential benefits of polyamory.

So...who's going to be the first to point out that evolutionary psychology is total bullshit, then disregard everything this person says after referencing Sex at Dawn?

This is a really lovely piece, and I applaud Jezebel for giving voice to relationship paradigms that aren't monogamous. To paraphrase Diff'rent Strokes, the world doesn't move to the beat of just one drum, and more acceptance for lifestyles that work for different people is awesome.