And why the hell are we stuck in the greys? I don’t understand how this all works - I thought as the OP that all your responses would go ‘live’. Anyway, at least we can see our responses in the greys

Thanks - can’t tell you how much I appreciate your response. I will follow your advice about measuring the pour as I do see that controlling the drinking is a good way to determine whether there’s an issue. I hear you big time on the kid learning from me and you are spot on - thank you for saying it so kindly but…

I also think this would be a great topic for this ‘project’ - many people I know (myself included) joke that they are functional alcoholics - like to drink and drink a good amount but never get sloppy or black out and are very responsible people who do not let drinking interfere with their ‘regular’ life in any way. I…