Nobody is actively recommending weight gain. It’s a joking hyperbole. And people don’t typically “choose” to occupy a zone of humanity wherein they’re mocked, dehumanized, hated, ostracized, and made to feel disgusting constantly. It’s a crazy fucking brand of feminism to objectify women based on their size, and to…

Please fuck off.

I thought I hated the invisibility. Now that I’m losing weight I want it back. I’d rather be invisible (and healthy and fit) than feel like I do now: which is like an object and a toy.

This is so good. And mirrors so much of what I feel. Hopeless and angry and just so fucking full of rage at the class of men that I don’t know what to do with myself.

This was amazing. Thank you for writing!

You could argue that mainstream American Culture is White culture as it tends to focus on Whites the most. A lot of it is also built upon different European cultures brought and incorporated by immigrants and colonists.

There’s really no such thing. Since the US is a country of immigrants, you’ll find German culture, Irish and Italian culture, etc, etc... But culture, folklore, language, food simply based on white skin??? Nope!

Here’s how I see this when people complain about things like black history. Slaves were literally forced to abandon their languages, culture, etc. So much was lost. Most people can’t trace their heritage to a specific country, many can, but not in the way white people nail it down to the percentage. White people…

Isn’t not wearing panties very common when wearing tight dresses? What is this crazy woman’s problem?

I haven’t seen the episode yet (my DVR awaits!) but from the previews and this write up, there are 2 things that I don’t get:

I realize this isn’t the point of this article, but I’m so fucking sick and tired of people saying “get over it” and “don’t be so sensitive” when someone is being insulting. If you always have to make jokes at other people’s expense to be funny, you are not funny. You are sad.

These ladies should watch RHoNY8 and take notes. I feel like Andy Cohen is personally insulting my sensibilities as a reality tv viewer by allowing so much time to be dedicated to a very mundane undergarment choice but I guess they had to find something to fill the time between these women falling all over themselves…

Dorit is so disgusting. She deserves her nasty sweaty husband. What awful people. As if a woman not wearing underwear is such a shocking thing. Also go Eileen! I always have a soft spot for her. She seems like a sweet, supportive friend.

Hoping I can be liberated from the gray’s to say this, but that pic of Lil’ Kim is quite obviously photo-shopped - even a cursory inspection of the twitter comments shows what she actually looked like that night. Her skin tone is even between her hands and face, there’re even video receipts. Sure, she’s destroyed her…

How did a copy/pasted email exchange between 2 other people involve any bias on the part of Rich?

I’m having difficulty understanding Margaret Cho’s perspective here. It sounds like Tilda was up front about the issues, expressed her desire to do something about it and sought advice from someone who is in a good position to provide it. And Cho’s responses were thoughtful and measured as well. Not sure what got lost…

You’re criticized either way. You dump the guy you’re a power obsessed, robotic bitch putting your career above your husband and child. You don’t and then you’re an idiot who should’ve put your career first.

But it’s a damned if you do/don’t situation. A huge critique of many successful women is that they’re these power obsessed, craven people. People say Hillary is just married for political reasons and it’s a marriage for power. Or they give her shit for staying. So if you dump the asshole you’re criticized for putting…

We don’t use language in the same way. I would not think the “logical consequences” of my husband sexting with grown women would be that a couple of years later, he would eventually sext a teenager, which the FBI would use as a bullshit reason to look at my computer for more emails involved in a nothing email scandal…