Are you a worse mother because you spent a weekend at the spa with the girls? Are you a worse mother because you text your girlfriends about what happened on TWD? There’s plenty of room for adult relationships in one’s life, and it has zero to do with the children. In fact, taking care of oneself, in whatever way you…

Shouldn’t you put a little more stock into an actual relationship than this? Assuming it’s a long term relationship, unless you find out you’ve been with a serial cheater who’s been doing it from the start, there’s usually a problem that developed or something that contributed to the situation over time until it…

Is it really the biggest deal? That your partner used someone else for sex? Don’t humans naturally want to do that anyway? Like if you take jealousy and pettiness out of it, is there real harm that constitutes ending the marraige?

When I was younger I used to think that cheating was a deal breaker and unforgiveable. It was a black and white issue. The older I get the greyer the issue becomes and more I see how complicated the roots infidelity can be. I am both more open minded to forgiving it and understanding when someone decides to forgive.…