the point is, don’t trust people who have fantasies about raping others. fantasising about getting raped is another kind of messed up, but not as potentially dangerous as fantasising about being a rapist. lots of people deal with surviving sexual assault by fantasising about it in different ways and playing with…

did get me thinking how this one guy i dated pantomimed choking me during sex sometimes

I see it as a matter of threat management. People who tell me Muslims are a threat to me are more likely to be an actual, honest threat to me and my friends than the Muslims in my life are, so I don’t pick fights with Muslims. In the same way, people who campaign against “rape fetishists,” “pedophile apologists,” etc.…

Thank you for this. It’s as if there’s a cutoff age for missing child cases to be taken seriously. 11 year old doesn’t come home from school? Victim of child predator; find her by any means necessary. 14 year old doesn’t come from school? Teen runaway; she’ll turn up. Sick pedo kidnappers do not care if a girl has…

exactly, it’s disgusting and morally appalling to me that people masturbate to scenarios like the worst thing that ever happened to me. rape-play and rape kinks are fucked up and i’m sorry if people feel judged by that but maybe they should because maybe their idea of “harmless fun” is seriously fucked up.

Yep. The worst thing that happened to me is not for you to rub one out to.

how sick can you be. this poor girl. there are no words.

i’m dismissing all replies from rape kink apologists. i am a survivor of sexual violence and i don’t want to hear about all the “totally harmless” people who like to fantasise about stuff like what was done to me to get off.

i’m dismissing all the apologia, so don’t bother.

Whenever there is a horrific story like this I’m remember needs of all those little saying people say to comfort others.

amen. i’m tired of being told that kink-shaming rape fantasies is wrong. if you have rape fantasies, you are fucked up and need help.

but rape porn is totally cool and you have to agree if you want to call yourself a “sex-positive” feminist! kink shaming is wrong!

#DontTrustMenWithRapeFantasies2k17

This was a woman who adopted a little girl entirely so she could torture and murder her. I seriously doubt she ever thought of the victim as her “child.”

Seriously. This is sickening.

I’m done.

She raped and murdered her own child, but she is out on bail. That is fucked up.

It ain’t fantasy if it done been did.

...This was not a “fantasy.”

But not the one we deserved.